Stress.......... Who's been there and have faced the results

[Chesney Land]

Ok guys and gals. As many of you know I was married to one hell of a man and divorced due to it. After the divorce I had to move away and am still living in fear to this day. After I moved he still harassed me and made his threats. Since last March I have gained a lil weight, but have remained UNDER 175 pounds. When that picture was taken I weighed 145 pounds. No, Im not very tall, but you can tell Ive gained. I let fear take control of my life and stopped my daily routine. I am still constantly looking over my shoulder in fear of turning around and him being there.

However, I have taken control of my life and made the move here. Yes, Im doing something about it. Does it matter that someone puts on a lil weight. I dont think so. Im still very pretty and the same person I was.

So my question is.............. How many of you have let life's going on and let things get out of control??????? As living testimony when you let go of control of your life.............. there are consequences. My picture has been plastered all over this site in the past and now when I look at it, it motivates me to keep working at it and get back to the way I was a year ago. I have made a lot of friends on here and hope that those friends still remain my friends.

I hope if I run into many of you, we can still laugh and giggle like we do on here.

Sorry but I had to speak about it and I hope you support what Ive said and not hammer me.

[Davedowneast]

Marissa,

Yes, the beach pic of you is definitely hot and I'm sure a lot of guys have downloaded it to their computer. Yes, you have put on some weight since that picture. Yes, you are still beautiful. Yes, you are still the same person as you were before. I think the only real change that has taken place since your weight gain is how you look at yourself. As you work towards and start to achieve your "old" look, you will feel better.

In the meantime, keep posting, keep those guys wondering. Life is full of surprises, enjoy it!

The last thing a guy should talk about is a girls weight, so I hope I didn't get myself into a bunch of trouble here

[Chesney Land]

Thanks Dave.............. your words are very sweet. I agree I am still the same person and very beautiful. I enjoyed our lunch together and you have said numerous times how beautiful I am. thanks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Im looking forward to our next lunch together............. those salads are awesome.

marissa

[Surfergirl]

I personally feel that beauty comes from the inside. For example you can take a guy who may not be so good looking but if you hang around him long enough and see he has a very caring, loving soul he becomes the MOST handsome guy you have ever known. ...

I know alot of "hot" guys who I would not be seen with due to their nature.


AND GUYS.... Do we REALLY want to talk about "SIZE"?!?!?

[Chesney Land]

thanks surf i appreciate that. i was just doing some self examining this morning and decided to be honest with myself.

this site has been a real motivation for me with some issues and i wanted to speak about it. i hope you all understand. yall here on the site are like my family and i needed my family this morning. thanks all

[DR PHIL]

Dont let your weight get you down. As long as your happy with who you see in the mirror thats all that matters.

[mrfishy]

Dont let your weight get you down. As long as your happy with who you see in the mirror thats all that matters.

Oh my god It's DR PHIL

[Capt. Brian Daley]

Mirror mirror on the wall we dont care if Marissa is short or tall, I only see what
inside our sole nothin else thats probley why where all so tight on this site like
family just like surfer said its inside thats the beauty of it, and just think with
your new carer and all that waxin you'll be doing you will be in tip top shape
in know time Marissa you have taken charge of your life already my moving away your new life start now today you will be fine just smile in the mirror

ps if you have trouble with the X send him up my way love to take a coward for
a long boat ride

[c.behney]

chesney land
Live your life to the fullest. Dont look back on the bad things look back on the good things. I know how it feels to go through a bad divorce. But i regret nothing i did in my life. Be yourself. Enough of the sad stuff, go kill something big, and party with friends.

[gottaflylee]

Enuff said!