Stress.......... Who's been there and have faced the results

[Hallnass282]

It gets to me a lot in the winter.My parents divorced last year and I was undefeated until the point that they said it was all going down.With in a matter of 3 weeks I had lost 3 matches just because i wanted to kill someone and was more worried about hurting the kid than wrestling to win.A month after they told me I was hurt pretty badly and had to have a shoulder surgery.Everything got better over summer and had another great wrestling season.Went to wrestling camp at the University of Michigan with the team and tore my labrum and rotator cuff on the other shoulder there in the finals (we won the camp tournament).This time I knew something was up ... I could barley move my arm.Well I went to the doctor and he said I was screwed and could possibly never wrestle again.Fished the WMO and went in for surgery the next week.6 weeks in a sling and 4 months of nothing.That meant I wouldnt be wrestling the begining of the season not to mention wouldnt be mating for the poor girls.Stress is hard on your body I know that for a fact.For me to wrestle varisty this year I dropped 20 pounds in 3 weeks.Im a pretty hot headed kid (16 yo) and if I dont vent I would do something bad.Some people may think its odd and bust on you for it but come here to freak out instead of doing something stupid.It will take its course but you are still you and you can get through it.Dont be afraid to talk to people if they are a real friend then they will listen.

[Muddybottomblues]

Chesneyland,
This site has been A++ from day one for me! I have vented on this site and it's GREAT, because of the people on this site! We don't judge, we understand, and we are all living in the same world. Which we all know can be screwed up from time to time. I feel that what the Ex has done sucks! I told my wife that if we ever get divorced for whatever reason, that we should move on, however for our daughters, keep it calm. I know it's easier to type that than it sometimes to do.
To qoute someone I really don't like..... The bones are for the dogs, the meat is for the man!
Best of luck in your new future, and remember, it is NEW, RUN WITH IT!

Al/Muddybottomblues

[zinghaha]

With that many friends today has got to be better!

[Chesney Land]

Chesneyland,
This site has been A++ from day one for me! I have vented on this site and it's GREAT, because of the people on this site! We don't judge, we understand, and we are all living in the same world. Which we all know can be screwed up from time to time. I feel that what the Ex has done sucks! I told my wife that if we ever get divorced for whatever reason, that we should move on, however for our daughters, keep it calm. I know it's easier to type that than it sometimes to do.
To qoute someone I really don't like..... The bones are for the dogs, the meat is for the man!
Best of luck in your new future, and remember, it is NEW, RUN WITH IT!

Al/Muddybottomblues

thanks muddy bottom blues. the ex called today bothering me again and instead of getting upset and crying i told him wtf and called my phone provider and had him blocked. ive decided im going to buy a boxing ball and some gloves. i may put his picture on it and everytime i get upset, im going to practice my boxing.......... great exercise and anger management in my book.