people facinate me

[jawz12]

people facinate me...is it me ?? i don't get it,and i just will never understand people ...
could someone explain to me when the world got to the point you can't disagree with anyone ? could someone tell me when it became wrong to point out the obvious ??
when did it happen that no score is kept in a kid's soccer or baseball game ??
all these things go together...

big tough fishermen,guys who type stuff like,"i'm gonna kill somethign big",same guys who post pictures of themselves dressed like "ganstas",these guys get completley offended by stating they're inexperienced ?? i don't get it ?? is it me ??
is that wrong to tell someone they're inexperienced,if they indeed are ?? is it wrong to tell someone the truth ?? is it wrong to point out facts ?? is it wrong to tell someone they're wrong ??


is it "ok" for someone to "call" someone on what they said or did ?? and if it's not ok,what exactly makes it wrong ??

what ever happened to "responsibility",as in,personal responsibility.what ever happened to standing up for what's right ??

here's an example:
last nite,me n "penelope" went to get a snack and a guiness over at a local place,i seen someone i know.the gentleman has a buisness and he's said quite a few bad things about me,last time i seen him,he stopped at my shop-about 2 years ago,i threw him out.this gentleman decides to come over,holding his hand out-to shake hands with me,i was seated,i expalined to him,go away,and go away now...i don't understand people like this,nor do i wish to.i can't respect anyone like that.what i can respect is someone who has the nerve to tell someone exactly what's on their mind,that's how i do things,and,truthfully,that's how all of my friends are,people that are not like that,i have absolutley no respect for.i have 3,mabey 4 very good friends,i know alot of people,they're not "friends",just people i know...
most,if not all problems can be worked out,by a simple way-"communication",but,most people avoid that,unfortunatley,me,i don't avoid that,and i'm labled "agressive",or "combative"-bullshit !! it's called,if you've got a problem,tell me what's on your mind...i hate liars,and i hate weasels that talk about someone behind their back !! i demand loyalty,i would give anyone the shirt off my back,i would never turn my back on anyone that didn't deserve it-"screw me once,shame on you-screw me twice,shame on me"...if you're gonna say it behind someone's back,at least have the balls to say it someone's face...same deal on the computer,if you're gonna type,at least have the balls to say what you type to someone's face-can't do it ?? then shut up-pretty simple huh ??

if all this makes me an asshole,then so be it...

that's my rant for the week...

[SNAKE EYES SPORTFISHING]

well admitting your an asshole is half the solution....
naw just kidding, jimmy your a professional at your trade, nothing wrong with that at all, maybe more people should take some pride in what they do, i mean dont you get reffered customers, sure you do, however your in the bussiness that doesn't get many return customers, right..why cause you do it right the first time or you dont do it. you know i was kiddin about the asshole thing right...by the way hows the lobster boat going , any pics...dave

[jawz12]

got nothing to do with buisness dave,this is strictly personal...and how people conduct themselves,it facinates me...just like the title-LOL !! i just don't get how things work any more...

lobster boat,it's on hold right now,got a full shop,lots of stuff to get in the water-my stuff comes last...

[Docked Wages]

In the corporate world they have "sensitivity training". Not that I personally see anything wrong with telling it how it is!

[teddyp]

Here is the problem. We have been taught that you can let a little time go by and then shake the hand of a person you have totally screwed, say your sorry and everything will be alright. What that guy should have said is "here's my problem with you. If you want to talk it out you know where to find me." That way the ball is in your court to act on. I see this stuff all the time. If people would tell it like it is this world would be 85x more efficient.

[cdail28590]

Let me start by saying that from what I have seen Jimmy does great work and I will be the first to admit that when I see a post by him I look at it to see what he's working on and hows he fixing it. He gives a lot of informative information and really tries to educate fellow boaters. But Jimmy lets quit the BS and crying about how you are always unfairly treated. Why don't you practice what you preach. Communication from you thats a joke. Where was the communication when you and I had a deal and I drove 8hrs out of my way to meet you and you had family issues and couldn't fulfill your end of the deal. No problem call me when you get it figured out. No call from Jimmy. When I call I get cussed out and hung up on. Even after that I send out a PM to him letting him know that I understood his frustration at the time because of his family issue and to just let me know if he wanted to finish the deal we had. No response. You want to complain about how people are so full of sh-t and how you don't understand. It's called Karma and what goes around comes around. I have not said anything about this situation in 2 years since it happened because I was just going to let it go, but everytime you write about how you do people right it just makes my blood boil and I have finally had enough were I just had to vent. Now I know I will hear "come up here and meet me and discuss it like a man or I'll come down there and kick your A." I did enough fighting when I was younger to realize that thats pointless and gets you nowhere except jail. This is about me letting you know that sometimes your not right and you don't do the right thing and you need to think about how you have treated other people before you start whining about how you've been treated.

[jawz12]

the above-that's exactly my point !!

you forgot a few important details...

you were interested in a pair of engines i had for sale,take outs,used engines-very cheap used engines...

medical emergency in my family,that was the problem,second thing,you called me about 15 times,after i asked you,and you agreed,i would get back to you,after things settled-next day,you called me 5-6 times,i told you to stop calling me,go the f#*k away...

and,it's not about me being mistreated,not only are you confused,and a liar,you're also stupid...that post i typed expalins people and their behavior,kinda like calling someone repeatedly-sound familiar ??
people facinate me...you too...next time,get the story straight...

[cdail28590]

I'm not confused and I'm sure not a liar. If things don't go your way you always put it off on someone else. You have whats known as selective memory. You didn't seem to have a hard time calling me to make sure I was coming with the money but when I show up I couldn't get in touch with you and then you were up the air about how things were going, so the next day before I drove 5 hrs home and not wanting to make another trip I checked to see what was up with no response. Everytime I contacted you I left you a message with no response. Lets go back to elementary school and call people names. That shows your mentality and maturity level. I'm not going to lower myself to your standards by calling you names I am just telling the truth and you have a problem with that. Why don't you give me your trademark sentence, "If you got a problem come up here and say it to my face so we can handle it". The problem is you wouldn't be there, I have been to NJ and you didn't show up. This isn't the place for you and I to ***** so I will not respond anymore.

[Big Jay]

This dialogue usually suffices:

"No. I am sorry. Not going to shake your hand. You had your chance and you blew it. I am going to ignore you and I suggest you do the same"

Simple as that.

[Docked Wages]