I have a neighbor who's a single mom since her husband died about two years ago. She's very bright and affable but tends to drink a bit. Actually, she drinks quite a bit more than a bit.
One day last month she came over with a scotch in hand and wanted to see our progress on remodeling out kitchen. After oggling all our work (we never hire handymen if we can avoid it) she suddently said, "Hey, did you hear that the most common name of newly born males in America is now Jose?"
It was such blantant bigotry and smelled so much of white priviledge and entitlement that my wife and I chose not to respond any more than just to offer a neutral platitude like, "No. But that's interesting." She's the sister of the guy I often write about who's also a white bigot and who's found himself swimming in a toxic stew of insurance company bile when he lost his job and started looking for health insurance. So, we weren't surprised at what she said. Besides, she was drunk, again.
New incident, as some of you recall my Son is pretty bright. He's 26 out of 898 kids in his high school class and he's in the International Baccalaureate program. The top 10% of the students were singled out for honors and there was a nice ceremony last week. My wife and I both attended.
Each kid had his name called out in reverse order of their class standing and their parents met them on stage to drap a medal over their heads and then stand for pictures. I couldn't help but notice the large number of non-whites in the top 10%. First names like Yesha and Uresha weren't common but certainly well-represented. And, last names like Nguyen, Tang, Dong, Mohammed, Patel, Aguilar, Rodriguez and Hernandez were very well represented. Indeed, most, perhaps 70% of the students in the top 10% did not have Christian last names.
And, the valedictorian (#1) and the salutatorian (#2) had the last names of Rodriguez and Aguilar, respectively. And, both of them had the first name Jose. Given their appearance they were not of European decent, but rather, appeared to both have strong Aztec features. Their parents were the picture of the Indijenos I've seen in my travels to Central America.
I was impressed and, frankly, proud of those two kids as I'm sure their families and they have faced many hardships and much discrimination in that school. It's in very North Harris County and the student body is predominantly white country folks most of whom can be counted on to be bigots and racists and to not have ever left the county.
I made a point of making my way over to those two kids' families and personally congratulating them. The parents either spoke no English or very broken English. The kids, however, could have just been air-dropped from their studies at Harvard their English was so great.
Anway, I came home and started to send an e-mail to my bigoted neighbors about the name Jose. The text said, "Regene, remember when you told me that Jose was recently reported to be the most common first name for newborns in America. Well, I've got a surprise for you. It's also the first name of both the valedictorian and salutatorian of my Son's high school class."
The e-mail went on to say, "I guess your mention of this statistic was intended to show that the minorities are taking over America and the fact that you chose to mention it to us probably means that you're uncomfortable with that. Well, I'm here to tell you that it's worse than you think. Not only are Hispanics becoming predominant here, not only are they taking away from our kids all the lawn cutting and tree-trimming jobs, not only are they showing up in our ERs for treatment along with all the white trash and other coloreds, not only are then applying for Medicaid, again, along with all the white trash and other coloreds but also...
...THEY'RE TAKING OVER OUR HIGH SCHOOLS. And I have proof. Both the valedictorian and salutatorian of my Son's high school class were named Jose!
Unbelievable, huh?"
But I didn't send the e-mail. I deleted it before sending. I didn't delete it because I thought it might offend her, although it might have. I didn't send it because it was in poor taste, as it surely was. I deleted it because I thought she wouldn't understand the irony of it and because if she didn't the e-mail would probably go viral and a whole bunch of Republican bigots would have another misguided talking point.
What do you think? Did I make the right decision?
LF


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