looking for a little advice on women

[La Gringa]

Exactly what Reel Fanatic said. Plus, maybe you can help her find a nice apartment that matches her current financial situation. It's a typical guy thing to want to be the hero who can fix all ills, and a girl thing to be looking for the knight in shining armor, but it's not realistic. Finding ways to work as a team to solve life's problems and cope with disappointments says a lot more about your ability to build a real-world workable future together.

Also, beware of totally dependent types. It's nice when a woman leans on you for support (makes you feel more manly, arrgh, arrgh, arrgh!) but if they're completely helpless it becomes a burden. Don't ask me how I know this. I haven't met your GF, so I'll leave it to your judgement.

I wish you both the best of luck, and in tough times always remember; 'This too, shall pass.'

Good advice from all of you guys. I figured I'd have something to add... but not really.

[blackwell50]

thanks for all the advice.i think i'm just gonna back off and see what happens.If it is meant to be it will,if not it won't.All the worrying in the world can't change a thing.