I've had my challenges with teenagers (got only one left now) but in general I have not experienced the nightmares that I've heard about either. Maybe it's because I have boys? I think it could have been worse with girls???

Dunno and never will...!!!
Anyway, you and Mrs. Deep should give yourselves a lot of credit for how she's turning out. It really does start at home, doesn't it?
P.S. Oh yea, and as far as their girlfriends are concerned - I wasn't too sure how I'd feel about it. To tell you the truth, I find most teenaged girls pretty useless and I expected to simply tolerate them. But my boys surprised me, for the most part, by hooking up with girls who were intelligent and interesting, hard-working students with good career goals whose company I enjoyed!!!
